You said you were most disappointed with the coaching attitude toward them. Well, I think you could somewhat argue that this same attitude year after year creates a culture of "who cares." Year after year of discipline not being addressed and finally we get to a year where players are committing even bigger penalties and at more crucial times. Lack of focus and discipline leads to making those mistakes at the worst possible time when the team needs it most.
I don't think of this year as a difference. More like every other year lead up to this one. Especially being 5th/6th worst in the nation last year spilling over into this year "untouched" by coaches. I think it's a progression.
I fear for the development of future players, including the discipline aspect of it.