anything?
Bottom line - you have absolutely no idea what position Holker is in. We assume we know the reasons and maybe we're right in some or most of those assumptions, but we're not him. We don't understand the situation. He's making the choice, whether you believe it or not, because he believes it's the best one he's got. Are you going to sit here and say that every choice you've ever made had a neutral or positive effect on those around you? Get real. It's a sport. They're young adults with rapidly shifting life circumstances. Get real.