I'm sad about Chandler too, but I simply can't understand criticizing him. I myself begrudgingly went to BYU for cost reasons, even though I was already a huge BYU sports fan. I'm really glad I did, but it's not like I don't get why even LDS kids wouldn't want to go there. And to get an opportunity to play at a blue blood with the coach you built a relationship with, it makes total sense to me. But even if it didn't, you don't know the kid, his situation, his thought process.
I said the same thing when people were upset at Kozlowski for going to USC and I'll keep saying it. Let the kids do what they want.