do. She used to play board games with a group of friends till like 1 or 2 in the morning every Friday and Saturday night. I am not invited to these and it was really bugging me because I wanted her to be home and help with the baby or at the very least do date night with me every once in awhile.

So we talked about it and she absolutely did not want to be forced to be home every weekend night. So we ended up agreeing to get a babysitter (we share the cost) and go out to dinner and then she goes to game night.

That was like pulling teeth to get that much. I don’t want to start whining about social media stuff.

Bugs me a bit though because I know the co worker guy has been invited to at least one of those game nights (not by her, by one of the other people) but she won’t invite me.

I agree it isn’t ideal, but I don’t know what to do about it without freaking her out.