In reading some of the comments in this thread it seems like many of us are lacking understanding what some of our medical professionals go through. Myself included.
Many people here have professions that I have the utmost respect for. I have never had to give parents or another person devastating life changing news. I have been on the receiving end a few times. I didn’t realize how much it affects them.
I think sometimes we mean well when we try to fix their lives. In this instance questioning miracles or a crisis of faith. I do think it is a testament of this board that so many want to help even in a small way. We all need to remember our life experiences and perspectives are different. We need to be willing to give empathy not judgement even if our views do not align.