shoving someone is something I don’t think a mature young man at BYU would do.

However I don’t have any basis for thinking this. We all interact on Sundays with young men like this regularly. They are great young men but they are demonstrate typical behavior in many ways.

My point is Kalani is doing a great job helping these young men learn. We should allow for them the also be young men and realize this is a learning experience while they are playing.