I’ll admit that I tend to find my cultural norms attractive but I can also see how it could make someone outside the norm feel judged or shamed. I need to work on me first and it’s pretty hard to get over my cultural norms.
Shaving your pits is on a line where it almost feels like you are being lazy and want everyone to stop judging you about something completely in your control. It’s not like race or gender or something else that you are genetically predisposed to.
If she don’t wanna shave cool cool but I don’t think it’s going to be the norm anytime soon.