“If there is an issue it’s not in my control, there is nothing I can do, I’m just a victim”

No you are not!! You can over come this. If you want to ride rollercoasters the bar to be less than 300lbs is not high, if you don’t meet that bar you need to taken control and make it!

You can do it!!

You can do anything you set your mind to, you can be happy! It is up to you, not someone else to make it happen, you have the power!