he had a beer or two. Wake up and show some compassion.

This reminds me of a joke that was told during my mission days.

A girl from Springville is pregnant and confides in her father. He is angry and wants to meet her boyfriend. "But Daddy, you won't like him, he drinks beer."

The condemning attitude just doesn't sit well with me. JJ is going home and we do this to him. Application of the HC needs some modification for non-members. BYU will never outgrow its provincial attitudes until it learns this.