I can't imagine getting so frustrated over "shut up" that I'd create a problem because of it.

Of course, I'm also not a little kid and I've never been a chest thumper either.

If we ever meet, feel free to tell me to shut up. You can even tell me that I'm ugly and unclean.
I'd be more concerned about my wife saying that to me. I care about her and how she feels and how she views me. Conversely, you mean nothing to me