I have one with my wife and not for transparency

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Apr 28, 2015
3:24:58pm

Rusby

I have one with my wife and not for transparency

We do it because we believe we are individuals to each other but outside of our marriage we try to represent ourselves as the same person. We do this with a lot of stuff, HIPA, POAs, you name it, we want people to feel that if they are communicating with one of us, you are communicating with both of us.

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Rusby

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Bio page: Rusby
Joined: Mar 22, 2013
Last login: Aug 3, 2016
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Joint Facebook accounts - let's discuss. I'll start - they suck cuz no one knows

Mayor of Cougartown

4/27/15 10:18am

Spouses need to be their own person.

PharmD

4/27/15 10:19am

They are plain stupid. A few people on CB have defended having them

jdub

4/27/15 10:20am

fb accounts are stupid whether joint or not.

smokymountainrain

4/27/15 10:38am

I disagree completely. Like any tool, depends on how you use it.

jdub

4/27/15 11:04am

Agree. I use it to find out what's going on around town, concerts, plays, etc

ByuImaginesDragons

4/27/15 11:35am

The suckiest sucks who ever sucked

maxpowers

4/27/15 10:20am

It's usually just the wife posting.

WaterCat

4/27/15 10:20am

not the case always. Specifically in one example I have dude friend from high

Mayor of Cougartown

4/27/15 10:23am

So is this her way of monitoring him?

WaterCat

4/27/15 10:30am

Yes.

Mayor of Cougartown

4/27/15 10:32am

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tassell

4/27/15 10:22am

I believe you are reading WAAAY to much into it

kimdaddy35

4/27/15 10:29am

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tassell

4/27/15 10:30am

I see, then I would tend to agree with you

kimdaddy35

4/27/15 10:36am

I don't agree. A lot of couples do it so there aren't any "secrets" etc.

Southpaw102

4/28/15 12:24pm

Homey don't even facebook.

4/27/15 10:22am

My Dad uses my Mom's account and ends posts his posts by saying they are from

PharmD

4/27/15 10:23am

my dad does the same thing.. Gets a pass due to oldness.

Mayor of Cougartown

4/27/15 10:24am

besides for mandated business reasons i don't know what would possess a grown

nashty

4/27/15 10:24am

PS i just opened my first facebook account 2 months ago b/c i started my own

nashty

4/27/15 10:25am

This is the only reason I have one.

shatter2

4/27/15 10:37am

Just requested you as a friend on facebook, please accept

HendyCoug

4/27/15 11:09am

I mostly just have it for "family groups". Pictures get posted there and not to

Mayor of Cougartown

4/27/15 10:26am

i do that with instagram...follow only family members...i could see that i guess

nashty

4/27/15 10:33am

^^^ Dude with an instagram account bagging on those with Facebook accounts

LiveCoug

4/27/15 10:34am

it was a family solution for sending group texts with photos in it

nashty

4/27/15 10:39am

so you're the relative that posst 50 pictures a day of their kid doing

kotacoug

4/27/15 10:54am

I do it to stay connected with people from my mission. That's about it.

CSoul

4/27/15 10:37am

I think there are several great reasons to have an account

jayriggity

4/27/15 11:05am

Oh come on. If you've found a reason to have one then why bash it?

buckeyecougarguy

4/27/15 11:07am

Tons of great reasons to be on Facebook but I will list two

Medute

4/27/15 11:57am

I know, how am I supposed to know which one is hitting on me?

DapperDan

4/27/15 10:25am

Just assume it's both

jdub

4/27/15 10:25am

just don't get why people care so much about this. i wouldn't do it

fattycoug

4/27/15 10:36am

Just a social comment mostly from me. Again, has anyone seen a non LDS couple

Mayor of Cougartown

4/27/15 10:39am

yeah, i have at least a couple of non-lds friends with "joint" accounts

fattycoug

4/27/15 10:48am

It's confusing. If you don't use FB, then no big deal, but if you do use it

Thrill

4/27/15 11:06am

i do use FB pretty regulalrly. Although I admit to some confusion

fattycoug

4/27/15 11:20am

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Mall Santa

4/27/15 10:38am

but is it really "working"?

Mayor of Cougartown

4/27/15 10:43am

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Mall Santa

4/27/15 10:45am

you just described exactly what I recommended. Have seperate accounts but the

Mayor of Cougartown

4/27/15 11:11am

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Mall Santa

4/27/15 11:21am

I think a lot of people wouldn't like that though b/c once someone checks

jayriggity

4/27/15 11:35am

Because it's stupid, dangit!

LiveCoug

4/27/15 10:44am

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Mall Santa

4/27/15 10:51am

RE: and yet, I don't see your posts railing against Kimchicoug!

kimchicoug

4/27/15 10:55am

I don't rail against adorable things.

LiveCoug

4/27/15 11:01am

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Mall Santa

4/27/15 11:07am

We only use FB to post GoFundMe pleas. She has hers, I have mine.

BYUFBDAD

4/27/15 10:58am

Here's the way I see it. If you share a bed, you should share a FB account as

Epileptic Beagle

4/27/15 11:00am

I have a non-Mo friend with a joint account. Pretty sure his wife set it up and

jayriggity

4/27/15 11:06am

i talk to this married guy on Facebook a lot but he tells his wife about every

ByuImaginesDragons

4/27/15 11:46am

I have seen non LDS people with them. Still weird.

supertux

4/27/15 12:00pm

My wife and I share a FB account and a lot of other things too.

Chadillac

4/27/15 12:13pm

I have one with my wife and not for transparency

Rusby

4/28/15 3:24pm

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