That's true in most cases, but if the couple knows they are going to have to

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May 29, 2015
11:33:20am

Byron McNertney

rely on public assistance to raise the children that they choose to have, that makes things more blurry.

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Byron McNertney

Previous username: sonofchet
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Last login: Apr 27, 2024
Total posts: 57,188 (13,788 FO)

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I know I'm a huge, huge jerk for thinking this, but why keep having kids

SandYFan

5/29/15 11:20am

I know I'm a huge, huge jerk ~~for thinking this, but why keep having kids~~

Blue Ghost

5/29/15 11:28am

Productive.

SandYFan

5/29/15 11:34am

Pretty sure it's the couple's private decision to make.

byujacob

5/29/15 11:29am

And its my private decision to mock their public request for funds

Linescratcher

5/29/15 11:31am

That's true in most cases, but if the couple knows they are going to have to

Byron McNertney

5/29/15 11:33am

I don't disagree, but I'm not going to soapbox and tell other people to not have

byujacob

5/29/15 11:37am

The entire point is that the family cannot financially handle this. I don't

SandYFan

5/29/15 11:38am

And my entire point is that it's not your business.

byujacob

5/29/15 11:46am

Okay.

SandYFan

5/29/15 11:48am

While I get where you're coming from

KingDave

5/29/15 12:01pm

Why have kids at all? You know they are going to have heartbreak and trials.

Cougarrr

5/29/15 11:30am

Well it is humanity's prime directive.

Shimmy

5/29/15 11:32am

An entirely uncontrollable impulse. I see.

SandYFan

5/29/15 11:35am

Hmmmmmmmm, didn't see where I said that, but okay.

Shimmy

5/29/15 11:41am

Yes, yes you are.

slowhiteguy

5/29/15 11:39am

Fair enough.

SandYFan

5/29/15 11:39am

Pose the question this way, to not look like a jerk:

frontrowcougar

5/29/15 11:49am

Maybe.

SandYFan

5/29/15 11:53am

Exactly. And then post in FO why these people are stupid for having kids.

Linescratcher

5/29/15 11:53am

lets ask your parents next time we see them

BlueFrog

5/29/15 11:49am

Wow, no need to get nasty.

SandYFan

5/29/15 11:50am

It's a fair question. A family I was working with last night brought this up

Ironhide

5/29/15 12:08pm

Meant for OP

Ironhide

5/29/15 12:09pm

Apparently it's question that provokes angry responses from some.

SandYFan

5/29/15 12:10pm

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Cougarrr

5/29/15 12:21pm

My wife and daughter have Ehlers Danlos

5/29/15 1:10pm

This is kind of what I was going to say

Gigo

5/30/15 7:35am

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