I just think it's disingenuous of people to try and use some random church talk

Feb 9, 2016
10:21:33am

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to justify not having sleepovers. If you're doing it because you decided that's how you want to raise your kids, then great, but pretending others shouldn't allow either because of a random church talk is kind of dumb.

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My poor daughter is going to be very sheltered.

VenetianCougar

2/8/16 5:15pm

So that helps her survive on her own how?

SandYFan

2/8/16 5:17pm

I won't be overprotective forever, just until she understands things

VenetianCougar

2/8/16 5:20pm

So about 30?

Paul Hewson

2/8/16 5:45pm

It'll be phased as circumstances and maturity dictate.

VenetianCougar

2/8/16 5:50pm

I'm with you. My girls won't be having sleepovers. I'm just too paranoid.

LosAlcoug

2/8/16 5:25pm

Totally agree.

VenetianCougar

2/8/16 5:27pm

Shouldn't be happening....

KGKUGR

2/8/16 5:36pm

Please link to the talk from any GA that says we shouldn't have sleepovers.

CougarBacker

2/8/16 6:22pm

Gene R Cook (70) talks about it extensively in his book.

VenetianCougar

2/8/16 6:31pm

Courageous Parenting Larry R. Lawrence Of the Seventy

KGKUGR

2/9/16 6:11am

RE: Courageous Parenting Larry R. Lawrence Of the Seventy

KGKUGR

2/9/16 6:17am

A key quote from that passage...

StantonMac

2/9/16 10:17am

Unless the spirit's told you never to allow sleepovers, right?

LosAlcoug

2/9/16 10:43am

What if the spirit told me to allow sleepovers? Really inconsistent spirit huh?

CougarBacker

2/9/16 10:44am

No, that's fine. I'm not advocating that YOU should or shouldn't do anything

LosAlcoug

2/9/16 10:50am

Yes and No. The spirit isn't going to tell you to break a commandment unless

CougarBacker

2/9/16 11:34am

Sure there may be circumstances that the spirit tells you to avoid a

LosAlcoug

2/9/16 11:46am

The spirit told me to stop talking to you because you tend to infer too much and

CougarBacker

2/9/16 12:00pm

Amen! I'm happy to know that not all CB'ers are nuts

CougarBacker

2/9/16 10:43am

RE: Please link to the talk from any GA that says we shouldn't have sleepovers.

KGKUGR

2/9/16 7:09am

So in the nearly 200 years of church talks, you found one talk from a 70

CougarBacker

2/9/16 9:56am

I'm not adopting it because it came from a church talk

VenetianCougar

2/9/16 10:12am

Knock yourself out. I couldn't care less what you do with your kids as long as

CougarBacker

2/9/16 10:19am

I just think it's disingenuous of people to try and use some random church talk

CougarBacker

2/9/16 10:21am

I never did, you asked for it so I gave it to you.

VenetianCougar

2/9/16 10:28am

Subjects like this on Cougarboard make me love my parents even more for not

CougarBacker

2/9/16 9:59am

Disagree but we don't raise each other's kids so that's fine.

VenetianCougar

2/9/16 10:13am

You disagree that a sheltered child makes an unproductive adult? I bet I could

CougarBacker

2/9/16 10:24am

Calm down there chief.

VenetianCougar

2/9/16 10:37am

Sounds good tiger. Please continue with your sheltered parenting now.

CougarBacker

2/9/16 10:46am

Funny you say Tiger. Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mom is my bible.

VenetianCougar

2/9/16 10:57am

Sounds like it. I hope that works out for you down the road.

CougarBacker

2/9/16 11:34am

This is laughable.

LosAlcoug

2/9/16 10:26am

Sheltering is a relevant term and the fact that you inferred that I am

CougarBacker

2/9/16 10:31am

I think you mean relative term

LosAlcoug

2/9/16 10:40am

You sound like someone who knows so much about so little. Or is it so little

CougarBacker

2/9/16 10:49am

So going to law school means I grew up with a silver spoon?

LosAlcoug

2/9/16 10:53am

So allowing sleepovers means I was born with a silver spoon? See the irony?

CougarBacker

2/9/16 11:35am

Wow. Reading comprehension fail.

LosAlcoug

2/9/16 11:42am

Listen crackerjack. You inferred that I was sheltered because I'm "banging my

CougarBacker

2/9/16 12:05pm

That idea seems to be gaining steam now a days which is good.

Dillinger

2/8/16 6:11pm

Just make sure she's ugly.

Dillinger

2/8/16 6:10pm

Won't happen, but i'll raise her to be nerdy.

VenetianCougar

2/8/16 6:17pm

Is it bad for me to have a little hope that my daughter is a bit chubby?

crm48

2/8/16 6:38pm

Yes

shimmy

2/8/16 6:39pm

Not unhealthily... but just enough to allow those to need to recongnize her

crm48

2/8/16 6:46pm

Hoping she is less attractive will be worse. Hope for more confidence, not less

shimmy

2/8/16 7:13pm

There are plenty of confident chubby girls! They just have less sex driven dudes

crm48

2/8/16 7:47pm

This thread is Taliban-ish

Cougarealist

2/9/16 6:45am

lol definitely not, and I'll be the same w/ my sons if I have any.

VenetianCougar

2/9/16 7:33am

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