I'm not particularly interested in what the balance of church talks indicate. I couldn't care less if there were 0 or 100 talks about sleepovers, I just think they're a bad idea most of the time.
How in the world did I indicate I adopted it because of a talk? You just asked for one and i provided 2. I wasn't even the person who referred to it. I even said "Not a commandment by any means."