I have met a lot of people in this world and one thing I have learned is that quite a few people are dishonest with themselves. I am not talking about stealing a bike or cheating on their taxes or white lies to friends. I am talking about actually convincing themselves at the core that the way they are acting or thinking is ok for whatever ridiculous reason. It grosses me out. I find it utterly disgusting. I know we all have blind spots. I am not saying I'm close to being translated. But if there is one thing I pride myself on it is giving an honest appraisal of myself at all times and when someone calls me out being truculently introspective.
Here is my plea CB. Think about your blind spots. Ask yourself am I being honest with myself? Am I seeing the world through the prism I want to see or the prism of truth. How do I lie to myself in relationships. And when you figure that out ask yourself why you do it. And when you figure that out go to the people who are close to you in your life and ask for forgiveness. Tell them you have decided to be honest with yourself and you do not mind them calling you out when they see you deviating from the path. We should all want to become better! Start with yourself today!
( now you all can call me out on how this could have been worded a lot better