replied to had a possible scenario for what it could have been. So there was speculation in that thread. You chose to air dirty laundry and say she was drunk. Hammered, I believe you said. Now we find out you didn't see her drinking? So it's hearsay. Now we can get back into the speculation arena even with you. You are trusting that others are telling you the truth on something you didn't see and then spreading that to the public as fact.

Is it hard to say that maybe you could have refrained from getting the dirty details of "what you heard" out to the public? Maybe you could have just let it go, as you put it. Maybe we could be better than that?

As I said in my response to your original post, its human nature. Everyone does it.