did read your entire OP.
You dislike the honor code because they enforce an honor code. They may not be perfect in the execution of enforcement, but the church and BYU and HCO are all run by imperfect people. No one is perfect except Christ, does that mean that anyone who tries to live a set of morals is hypocritical or corrupt or bad? I don't think so.
I think hypocracy comes from judging others while not seeing your own fault. Certainly some members are hypocrits, possibly some people in the HC office, but I don't think the HC office as a whole is inherently bad. There is likely a lesson in there for both sides of this FB issue.
The HCO is meant to help uphold morals, without consequences rules hold no weight. They have admitted failing in the sexual assaults situation, and they have changed how they handle those situations. So it isn't like they aren't trying to do it right. So my question is this, is it better to support an institution that tries to uphold a set of morals and sometimes fails in execution, or to support a school that so clearly doesn't care even about secular laws/morals?