Why do Ute fans (especially Mormon) and players get to say and do stupid things (drop F bombs; belittle our religion; use sacrament treys for shots; throw beer at us/and perform mock baptisms - there's tons more here) YET we have to sit on our hands and turn the other cheek.
I don't think your in-laws realize the BOT is at the head of BYU - I know I've dropped this nugget on a few Ute mormons and they always look shocked. I then ask why would you denigrate the school your church owns, runs, and uses as a missionary tool.
I don't stereotype all Ute fans - I have some really good friends who are utes. It's too bad your in-laws act the way they act - seems to be directed at you.