with one transfer to go. Diagnosed with Type 1 Diabetes. What downer for a 20 yr old. She had to come home as you know learning to deal with diabetes is not wise while on a mission. She ended up in the ER a couple days later the day before they were going to put her on the plane to send her home. And she was in FL not Russia! So I understand your trepidation.
This is one of those things that parents have to experience. That is having their children leave the nest. They are not children anymore but adults. And have to live their lives. My dad is 85 and he still worries about us and some of us he would like to knock some sense into them but he knows he can't.
Just always let her and all your children know you love them.