You're so wound up all the time. Relax man... Most of us are BYU fans. We all see things a bit differently on how the program should be ran and so forth but the bottom line is we root for BYU and support in our own way.
I spent close to $1,000.00 on going to Austin this year for the UT game. I've now been to several away games and I bet probably 4-10 pieces of BYU apparel per year for me and my family. Just cause someone views their BYU fandom differently than you doesn't make them a "bad fan".
Take it easy dude. It's not a big deal...