But with some of the stuff that went on with the kid, some friends of mine in the state department recommended we wait a month or two. then the visa was canceled. So we planned on going next year, (or going through the vice way) but now this. So, my other friends decided to still go without me. They are not American (Canadian and Indonesian). So now I need to hope that this ban is done in a year, and find someone to go with me. I will get there one day.