were a spirit and stare at her having sex? What makes you think those that know you have any interest in spending anytime around you? Especially in the privacy of your house. I wouldn't walk into any of my families homes unless perhaps it was a Christmas party just to have a peak at the gifts and understanding it was a extended family gathering.
Also, we can all be peeping toms in this world if we choose to, why all the sudden do we want to be one on the other side?