The delivery of prepared food simply brings with it a different set of ethical rules than other retail situations. It isn’t returnable.
I also don’t understand members who think it is okay to just casually hold a sacrament tray with the left hand if the right hand is healthy and free. Or people who think giving treats when you teach is wrong. Or anyone who think BYU-I’s dress and grooming standards even make any sense. Or people who don’t like pineapple on a pizza. Or anyone who frosts a cookie with less than a quarter inch of frosting. That’s just mean, I really don’t get that last one.