already "trapped" due to circumstances. That being said, it still resulted in more than a little tension here at rancho relaxo norte. Worked out fine, better than I could've expected, yet not completely tension free even now. Because it's not a "real job." Whatever the home situation, a move like that is a tough decision. However, I got to the point where I wished there was a cliff on the way to work, so I could at least get 2 wks in the hospital. Kinda joking, kinda not. If that severe, it makes the risk much easier to take. Bordering on necessary. Yet, the wife's personality is key in the whole thing. And her income.