I've said a few times that I have lots of Ute friends, mostly through church and work. My observation is the basketball fans trend towards the more affluent LDS set, football is more of a hodgepodge of the population of Utah. I've been to a number of basketball games at the U without issue if not downright hospitable, and have even gone with friends to non BYU games. Pretty bland and boring group to be honest. I haven't been to a game there in 3 or 4 years I'll admit. This is just to say I think the basketball fans are closer to awkward dorks than trashy jerks.
I will say this for at least the past 10-15 years, the atmosphere at the Marriott is a lot more energized and fun than at the U. Graet music, great events at half and intermission, they know how to put on a good show here. At the U I've seen them trot out Jr Jazz teams to play for 10 minutes for halftime entertainment. It's cute for about 2 minutes.