Wow, that's tough, I don't know what I'd do. And condolences on the funeral also. However, while you were building
you say that he gave minimal input. Are you sure that you were really listening to what he had to say? Sometimes that's hard to do, I know.
Take a minute to watch this. Even though the gender roles are reversed in this video, it might be enlightening to see things from your husband's point of view.