My BIL went from probably 190 to about 400 in almost 20 yrs.No hope he’ll change

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Oct 30, 2020
10:35:43am

gangbusters Redshirt Freshman

My BIL went from probably 190 to about 400 in almost 20 yrs.No hope he’ll change

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gangbusters

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Is there anyway to help someone who is gaining tons of weight without totally

10/30/20 9:25am

Zero. The only person that can help is the person themself. I guarantee you

brazilcoug

10/30/20 9:29am

Tell her husband your concerns, defiantly not her.

fredy

10/30/20 9:30am

Unless you have a really great relationship where you can approach these subjects without offending, probably not.

John Doe

10/30/20 9:33am

Buy her a copy of the obesity code. Say it’s from her mom.

boorad

10/30/20 9:33am

She knows.

10/30/20 9:35am

That's a lot of new clothes to buy going from 200 to 325 in 5 years. They

WhirleyPop

10/30/20 9:37am

offending them might be the only way

Beggar

10/30/20 9:35am

I'd bring it up during the prayer at Thanksgiving. "Please bless my SIL to

WhirleyPop

10/30/20 9:36am

If you've got a few pounds to shed, you could share your plan with the family.

Zooropa

10/30/20 9:43am

Alright I can take hint geez

BYU Grounds

10/30/20 9:47am

She knows she’s got a problem. Probably a psychological issue if it’s that bad.

stenso

10/30/20 9:48am

Is she married and does it seem to bother her husband? I wouldn't ever dare

RC Vikings

10/30/20 9:55am

shame will probably make it worse.

v1k0u6

10/30/20 9:55am

I had a lady that had to have been at least 270 lbs and around 5’2 ish snap at me at a West Valley Walmart parking lot..

Zach Morris

10/30/20 9:56am

What is her family/home situation? If she's feeling lonely and depressed

ballen

10/30/20 10:00am

She's married to my brother, who is the best guy that I know and he

10/30/20 10:19am

Your concern is coming from a good place. But sounds like her husband is the one who should say something.

unctoothman

10/30/20 10:50am

Maybe start with your brother and ask how you can be a support to him (if that

cougarsnooty

10/30/20 4:39pm

My BIL went from probably 190 to about 400 in almost 20 yrs.No hope he’ll change

gangbusters

10/30/20 10:35am

I see this ending really well for you

WDaddy

10/30/20 10:40am

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