Dudes get over things really fast, while, well honestly speaking, women tend to hold grudges.

Early on in our stake, I played b-ball with our ward. At one point, I got into a pretty decent argument with a guy (yelling and jawing, nothing physical). A couple of months later he and I are talking and laughing at a school function and my wife says, “isn’t that the guy I saw you get into an argument with?” I say, “yeah?”

She doesn’t get how we could be best of friends. I told her it’s just a guy thing I guess. We just don’t tend to hold grudges.