Harvey handled HIMSELF majestically, though.

Some kids just have to slip up to get things right. BYU needs to get real with the fact that we don't all get the same parents & circumstances. Yes, the code is right, but there needs to be distinction between an insecure guy taking his relationship with his girlfriend to far — & yet being willing to immediately pay for it in full by being a husband & father — versus a kid who simply went too far one night w some girl & doesn't want to face the responsibility.