the dad who raised him. The Deep Blue about Kalani and Fesi talks about his parents not being able to take care of the kids and his mom's brother ? - one of the sibs of one of his parents - taking in his brothers and sisters. Fesi is technically his cousin, but bec. they were raised tog. he considers him his brother. Mr. Platonic said as a player he went by Fefita-Sitake and then later just started going by Sitake.

Deep Blue told the super sad story about how only a few years after the other family took them in the mom who raised him developed early dementia so Fesi whose bio mom she was doesn't have any memories of her being normal, and that Kalani has had to tell him how amazing that she was.