Food recommendations: before you go to bandelier get a breakfast burrito from Chili works. It will be amazing. Get to banadalier early as it can get crowded. There is a good Mexican restaurant called Gabriel’s on the way to Santa Fe and it’s awesome.

Activities:
Go check out Old town in Santa Fe. Lots of the Native Americans come out and sell turquoise and other really neat items.
Bradbury science museum in Los Alamos is actually really cool if you are into WW2. It’s all about the atomic bomb. Walk around the pond in town. They even have summer concerts out there which is awesome.
Jemez hot springs. Not sure how much time you have, but there are some amazing hot springs hidden up in the mountains. Some nudity maybe, but you should be okay.

I will think more about this. I grew up here and it’s such a super cool area. Just not sure where you are staying and what time limits you have. There is so many cool overlooks and places to hike. Let me know!