We have had to completely take over their finances and are paying all of their
bills, unfortunately my mom still has access to her own separate bank account and is able to make transactions as she would like. In this case she hid it from me because she knew I would not approve what she was doing,
It’s tough because my dad has full blown dementia so we’ve taken over the bill if the finances for him but my mom thinks she understands what she is doing so still demands access to her account.
Long story but my mom worked her whole life and has always had her own account but we’re obviously at the point where we are now going to have to find a way to limit her access as well 😢