Out of sight, out of (her) mind. I would tell her about it if she asked or cared. Mostly emergency fund.

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POLL: Do you have a secret bank account/money stash your spouse is not aware of?

TheWanderer

5/24/22 4:15pm

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Buffalo

5/24/22 4:16pm

It's not a secret. But she doesn't care enough to know.

JuicyJam

5/24/22 4:18pm

exactly

Nat Gas Man

5/24/22 4:19pm

She sees the regular accounts but not an emergency acccount and doesn’t care

Nat Gas Man

5/24/22 4:56pm

I up the amount that goes in my 401k without her knowing, but that's as close

SUAVO

5/24/22 4:19pm

Where’s the “I don’t have a separate account but my wife has no idea how much

touchdownbyu

5/24/22 4:23pm

The solution to the "spending the communal money" problem is having at least 3 accounts:

molodyets

5/24/22 4:25pm

I have opened several accounts for her that she has never accessed and probably

Pepe

5/24/22 4:26pm

Wowsers. For those who voted "A" you have TNT's envy

TNT

5/24/22 4:33pm

I had an account in My name that I had forgotten about.. but Sister Relic knew

relic

5/24/22 4:33pm

She has her own accounts and they are sufficient for her needs and wants. Until

Gavin

5/24/22 4:33pm

My plan of marital bliss: Give 'em the paycheck AND the checkbook and prayer

relic

5/24/22 4:36pm

We share all finances, but I’ve been stashing a bit away for a surprise trip for

m0resn0w

5/24/22 4:41pm

I've invested our money into some companies lately without running it by her if

Trent

5/24/22 4:48pm

is it a secret stash if your wife knows it exists but has no idea how much is in

Gente_Boa

5/24/22 5:15pm

Out of sight, out of (her) mind. I would tell her about it if she asked or cared. Mostly emergency fund.

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