I hope I don’t end up on someone’s TikTok shaming vid one day, but if I’m curious about something or someone, I’ll ask questions and introduce myself. I do this with guys and girls alike. I don’t know if this comes with age, but I just don’t care anymore.

I find that this approach has led to more interesting conversations and friendships than I could have ever imagined.

I caught a guy trying to video me the other day, so I asked him if he got a good shot and whether we wanted a selfie with me too. He was embarrassed and that was fun for me, but now we talk a little every once in awhile.