people who complain about the people who complain.
I'm 65. You're not going to be a happy camper if you let any of those items bother you. People really should not be so critical and when they are, just ignore them. It takes some much longer in life to understand that it is an illusion that you really have any control over any other individual (including your children, except when they are usually single digit ages), other than control of your own self.