Let's at least stop telling people to love their bodies no matter how they look

Jul 28, 2014
3:40:42pm

Belboz

Maybe we shouldn't shame obese people, but let's not pat them on the back for being physically beautiful just they way they are.

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That's a message that needs to get out more

Hoosier Cougar

7/28/14 2:42pm

Good points. It also costs tax payers millions to pay for their medical bills.

Traveshamockery

7/28/14 2:46pm

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Buffalo

7/28/14 2:46pm

No GOV single payer system

Heinz57

7/28/14 2:51pm

Why is it ever okay to comment on another person's body? Why body shame them?

Ashtrash

7/28/14 2:48pm

Wet blanket alert

Tokolosh

7/28/14 2:49pm

Sorry, if there is one thing I hate, it's body shaming. You see it all the time:

Ashtrash

7/28/14 3:26pm

Let's at least stop telling people to love their bodies no matter how they look

Belboz

7/28/14 3:40pm

I don't think he's commenting on a specific person's body. He's commenting

Coach's Dad

7/28/14 2:58pm

Having worked with hundreds of obese clients, I assure - shaming is not helpful.

Ashtrash

7/28/14 3:21pm

I understand what you are saying, and clearly you have experience in helping

Coach's Dad

7/28/14 3:31pm

People are much more likely to overeat in public.

SteveOrr

7/28/14 4:55pm

Medically, we comment on bodies all the time and its appropriate

Hoosier Cougar

7/28/14 2:59pm

Medically, it is necessary. But fat-shaming or thin-shaming on the internet is

Ashtrash

7/28/14 3:18pm

I'm not so sure.

Belboz

7/28/14 3:11pm

Making someone feel horrible about themselves never induces change.

Ashtrash

7/28/14 3:23pm

It does for me.

Belboz

7/28/14 3:30pm

So that explains why you come to Cougarboard.

Coach's Dad

7/28/14 3:43pm

I'm a mess.

Belboz

7/28/14 3:51pm

So what's the point of "Godly Sorrow"?

UneducatedFan

7/28/14 4:58pm

RE: That's a message that needs to get out more

AndyDwyer

7/28/14 2:52pm

Now imagine the opposite...

Hoosier Cougar

7/28/14 3:02pm

There is an image of a model in a "I beat obesity" shirt, but I'm not sure

AndyDwyer

7/28/14 3:15pm

Under that model, I bet people would start paying better attention to it

Hoosier Cougar

7/28/14 3:20pm

It may be an eating disorder, but its not based on the same thing

Tricky

7/28/14 3:18pm

It's just cultural. Doctors do not hesitate to comment on

Memmo

7/28/14 3:03pm

Disagree.

Hoosier Cougar

7/28/14 3:16pm

I'll agree with that. At least when it comes to the extremes.

Memmo

7/28/14 3:43pm

Do you really think we glorify obesity though??

Ashtrash

7/28/14 4:02pm

Adam Carolla has some interesting ideas about this one

Belboz

7/28/14 3:26pm

I didn't know how to link to this thread...but it's what got me thinking

Borg

7/28/14 3:53pm

Where do you draw the line

Remigius

7/28/14 4:20pm

Shaming is a tangential topic

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