Forgive the youth for they don't know. I am the same, legacy member refused the invite to coaches circle for nearly same reason as you.

My psyche took a big hit personally over the whole 2010 debacle with the Big XII like yours did. A few of us know what really got screwed up here and who did it. Can't really blame that one on Tom or Bronco.

That said, BYU and Bronco have had many opportunities over the past ten years to make BYU nationally relevant only to fall short over and over again. We have watched as the past 15 years we have been passed by TCU, Yewtah, and BSU. Everyone has their own opinion, but you and I have not joined the coaches circle because of our reasons. Unfortunately there is way more that are happy or complacent with what we are that our small numbers can't compete. For everyone of us unwilling there is 100 more willing.

My faith may be weakened, but my love is still strong. Upset at the present, but hopefully for something great in the future.