Well I guess you can still say that gay marriage is wrong. See how far that gets you. But by getting over it I would recommend:

1- Quit trying to use Babylon to impose your moral views on gays. Such as Amendment 2 in Utah circa 2005. Hawaii. Prop 8. Basically using the machinery of the state to impose religious views. From Sharia law to the Zion Curtian, just quit.

2- And then if people are legally and lawfully married it should be no business of BYU what they do in their own bedrooms. I mean, it is fine to have a moral code for all singles at byu regardless of sexual orientation, but to say certain married couples aren't allowed to have any sexual relations with each other is ridiculous. I know that doesn't seem ridiculous to the vast majority of CB, but I'm telling you it seems ridiculous to an ever growing population outside.