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HCBW asking me to choose 10 things I want her to do for me...
Kuga
1/28/13 10:21pm
Pinterest is the devil. This is the start of a downward spiral.
MightyFreakingCougar
1/28/13 10:29pm
Don't be surprised when you see "Let me get a gym membership" on her top 10
MightyFreakingCougar
1/28/13 10:41pm
What's your point?
Kuga
1/28/13 10:48pm
Same as below, they said it a lot better. Just be very careful.
MightyFreakingCougar
1/28/13 11:11pm
Personally, 65 would be in my top 10
Coog4Life
1/28/13 10:30pm
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HalftimePastry
1/28/13 10:35pm
I think the RS is overcomplicating it. Guys are not that hard to figure out.
HalftimePastry
1/28/13 10:32pm
.... ..... .... ....
Zaphod
1/28/13 10:32pm
This is a really bad idea
wapiti
1/28/13 10:34pm
Explain
Kuga
1/28/13 10:49pm
Each thing you put on the list translates to she's doing a bad job at that.
Cosmo Kramer
1/28/13 11:02pm
This is exactly right.
klay
1/29/13 8:49am
Good post.
mr_thekid
1/29/13 4:19pm
Yeah
PharmCoug
1/29/13 1:58pm
Sounds like something she is doing for herself
messi
1/28/13 10:37pm
Either that was TIC, or a really yewt thing to say.
Kuga
1/28/13 10:43pm
It's true, though. I should have been more
messi
1/28/13 11:03pm
Sadly, has merit and truth. I wish FB, Twilight and bookclub gossip would all go
unctoothman
1/28/13 10:57pm
This goes for guys too, not just women...
Kuga
1/29/13 6:51am
CB?
cypresstx
1/29/13 6:59am
To an extent, yeah. I suppose there are worse sites than Pinterest or Cb...
Kuga
1/29/13 7:08am
I agree with you. Anything that takes time away from with your spouse or family
unctoothman
1/29/13 11:46am
Add in there "Read CB together"
StalwartBraveTrue
1/29/13 4:15pm
2 thoughts
BlueCoug
1/28/13 10:39pm
Yeah, that's a great one if you want to sleep alone for a few weeks
workindev
1/28/13 10:40pm
FYI, the Mrs. is 20 weeks along w/ our 2nd child, so #83 doesn't apply IMO.
Kuga
1/28/13 10:46pm
So, she is pregnant and asking you to tell her what she is doing wrong? How can
viper
1/29/13 11:29am
Ask her which ones she thinks you wold want. See how well she really knows you.
unctoothman
1/28/13 10:41pm
Been married almost 5 years.
Kuga
1/28/13 10:46pm
You should probably ask what she wants you to do more. After 5 years she
unctoothman
1/28/13 10:51pm
Good point. I stumbled across the list of things for her, planning on having her
Kuga
1/28/13 10:54pm
Oh oh. I ca see where this is leading to...
Rhino84
1/28/13 11:04pm
Sounds like this list was made by a woman...
Blue Morg
1/28/13 10:54pm
I thought that was a given. It's blatantly obvious.
Cosmo Kramer
1/28/13 11:04pm
89 is good, in many ways. Stay away from 91 and other Stepford suggestions
Florwood
1/28/13 10:56pm
You are treading on dangerous waters my friend.
RyneK
1/28/13 10:59pm
^^^This^^^
mgpid
1/28/13 11:05pm
Good feedback; thoughtful. Thanks.
Kuga
1/28/13 11:07pm
Ding ding ding ... reminds me of the Grapefruit Syndrome
Bergloewe
1/28/13 11:23pm
10 things is way too many. Just 2 or 3 would go a long way.
Cosmo Kramer
1/28/13 11:07pm
do you have kids?
azuniga
1/28/13 11:13pm
Me? Or Cosmo Kramer? We have 1 boy and another due in June.
Kuga
1/28/13 11:17pm
She's prego? Hormones and emotions all over the place?
MightyFreakingCougar
1/28/13 11:24pm
Isn't that a given? ;)
Kuga
1/29/13 6:54am
As a couples counselor I very much agree with this. 10 is way too many.
CounselingCoug
1/28/13 11:23pm
Thank you for the advice! Good perspective
Kuga
1/29/13 7:05am
It sounds like you have a very healthy relationship
CounselingCoug
1/29/13 10:35pm
Here's what you should do, instead
dchandle15
1/28/13 11:32pm
We're all very well aware of your "opinions" Board Ruiner!! Ha ha, Jk.
MightyFreakingCougar
1/28/13 11:35pm
My first post on the main board since that comment, not forgotten yet I guess
dchandle15
1/29/13 12:06am
Ha ha, just razzin' ya. You certainly made waves.
MightyFreakingCougar
1/29/13 12:21am
Yeah, it's interesting how far that went after a simple venting post
dchandle15
1/29/13 1:33am
Here's some perspective from a HCBW...that list is ridiculous.
nell
1/29/13 12:35am
My HCBW says Pinteret should only be a diversion not a self help book.
Hoosier Coug
1/29/13 1:20am
+1
nell
1/29/13 9:17am
Instead you might come up with a list of 10 things you will do, instead of her
cypresstx
1/29/13 6:31am
Also let her pick the changes she wants to apply to herself
cypresstx
1/29/13 7:09am
All women need to know is that actions speak louder than words
Freddie Cougar
1/29/13 5:48am
'IT'S A TRAP'. Not a trap your wife set up but one pininterest is helping her
rebelCoug
1/29/13 6:19am
It's a trap!!! Is exactly the same thoughts I had
cypresstx
1/29/13 6:28am
Exactly. This is what I was getting at.
messi
1/29/13 6:45am
I would just ask her to surprise you and pick the 10 herself
runnincoug
1/29/13 8:20am
I honestly think she has really good intentions.
nell
1/29/13 9:33am
RE: HCBW asking me to choose 10 things I want her to do for me...
cheezedawg
1/29/13 9:52am
This needs to be approached as "top 10 ways I feel loved", not "top 10 things
viper
1/29/13 10:15am
Could easily become this: (link)
Florwood
1/29/13 10:46am
Tell her you love her just the way she is but if she wants to try some of the
devanwestover
1/29/13 11:15am
BUY THIS BOOK:
FunkeCoug11
1/29/13 1:27pm
Thank you, I bought the book on my Google Books account
CougarW8
1/29/13 9:51pm
I use the five love languages assessment and most people seem to like it.
CounselingCoug
1/29/13 10:22pm
Thanks, I'll check it out. The more principles the better!
FunkeCoug11
1/30/13 8:10am
I wondered if it was ever really a good idea to ask CB for advice...
CougarW8
1/29/13 9:59pm
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