Like a guy from my ward really wanted to go 4 wheeling nearby sometime or maybe do a trip to Moab (we both have classic old 4x4s). I'm sure I'd have fun, but I just don't want to. I have to totally fake enthusiasm to do "bro" stuff anymore. I think 5 having little kids in my home for the last 15 years has totally gotten me out of the habit of doing social things with other guys my age (40's). It's weird because I wasn't like this in college. I don't feel motivated to invest time into friendships nowadays, I guess that just makes me pretty boring.