In your own accomplishments and not being threatened by the success of others.
It also requires seeing the best (not the worst) in others.
Truth is, Utah's HC and both coordinators are respectable, active members of the church as are many players.
It's a well respected program that has over achieved time and time again. Far more to honor about the program than to feel repelled by a few annoying fans.
You can choose to see the worst in Utah - as do many BYU fans -- but I would't claim taking the high road while doing so.