that you hadn't really given a lot of thought to your initial statement, and you realize now that you don't have a strong argument to support your opinion. That would be okay - would make you a bigger person, in fact.
In terms of "Mikes doesn't owe you anything" - NOBODY has ever claimed that Mika owes anybody anything. Nobody has said that. Ever. That point is not even part of the debate. He quit on the team. And people are upset about that. But nobody is claiming that he owed it to the team or BYU fans (or anybody else) to come back. Everyone agrees that he had every right to leave - but he screwed the team in doing so. That's all.