Hey I met your cousin at the airport with my son. Kalani was great to him. Seems like a fantastic genuine guy. I hope as much as anyone except probably his family that things work out for him and his team
That being said, this board really isn't a good place for you to be. Family shouldn't tune in to fan boards. You can have a few dozen guys with too much time on their hands that can make you feel like cougar nation is unfair and even cruel to your family.
If we are winning come back, but as long as we aren't your better off just avoiding a fan board