I can respect watching ones cholesterol.  When at home I use little meat and almost no red meat in my cooking.  However, eating good BBQ is an event , kind of like Thanksgiving dinner.  Not something to do every day (unfortunately), but when the time comes, eating only a salad is not only ungrateful and unpatriotic, but is down right immoral.

Plus, I can garuntee that the gallon of cole slaw is way worse for his health than any BBQ on the menu.