deserve a ton of credit, too, more than likely. I guess your wife does as well. I've rarely seen people cooperate that well, especially inside the church. Seems most people have such a need to show that they did nothing wrong that they cast their ex-spouse in the worst possible light, demonize, alienate, and disrupt as much as possible. That's been my sad experience.

Serious kudos to everybody involved for being responsible and putting kids' needs first and for just being mature, grown-yewt adults.