use the exact same phrase to defend the players decisions....
"A lot of them, winning is really important but it’s not the most important thing. The most important thing (for them) is my schedule and how my career is going and what’s best for me and what’s best for my family. That’s what you hear all the time. Somewhere in here, there is a team."
Yeah, this doesn't work for a successful anything. You have to be all in. BYU is not going to reload like Duke every year to make a revolving door successful.