men you don’t know and say “ hey, boy, get over here. I want to tell you something” See how that goes down then return and report. You and your black friends may call each other “boy” with no malintent because you know each other and are friends. Try it on a few men you don’t know and say it in a denigrating way. See how that goes down. I feel like I am talking to a 12 year old. Just. Doesn’t. Get. It.