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Jan 16, 2020
3:45:11pm

gwalker All-American

Even if it turns out you were disrespected, decide how much that bothers you. If

it bothers you enough, say nothing to anyone until you have another job. Not even a coworker who is a friend.

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gwalker

Bio page: gwalker
Joined: Aug 8, 2001
Last login: May 4, 2024
Total posts: 55,349 (7,385 FO)

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I applied for a management position at my company I knew I had little chance

Hypnotoad

1/16/20 3:22pm

I'd bring that up in the follow that they scheduled w/ you and let them know how disrespected you felt

IceBlueCoug

1/16/20 3:28pm

I'm going to do that

Hypnotoad

1/16/20 3:30pm

I would do it in a way that makes you look like your ready if it comes up again

P-Boy Squad

1/16/20 3:34pm

How you handle this will make a difference the next time around.

Lance71

1/16/20 4:06pm

^^^This is a very good approach.

rerunc

1/16/20 4:07pm

That's kinda messed up man.

Frank Castiglione

1/16/20 3:28pm

Such situations are good reminders of how one is viewed within

cougfanz

1/16/20 3:30pm

I've got 3750 reasons to stick around at least 2 more years.

Hypnotoad

1/16/20 3:33pm

I hope those are 3750 shares at >$15 and not dollars...

Mike Honcho

1/16/20 3:40pm

My guess is you could make more than that just about anywhere

USMCdad

1/16/20 3:40pm

3750 shares at $50 a piece? (total guess on the value)

Hypnotoad

1/16/20 3:43pm

Wow, even at half that I'm probably sticking around

1/16/20 3:47pm

I know, right? I'm hoping to pay off my house with that money.

Hypnotoad

1/16/20 3:49pm

makes much more sense then. Are the shares already trading or are you at a pre-IPO startup?

Mike Honcho

1/16/20 8:02pm

In general, no decisions are made until all candidates in the pipeline have been

AFewThoughts

1/16/20 3:30pm

That's not the way hiring works here. I've been part of many hiring processes.

Hypnotoad

1/16/20 3:32pm

I have a very unfortunate business rule of thumb that has been true everywhere

Cougarclaw

1/16/20 3:33pm

Yup. Want a big raise? Switch companies.

SandYFan

1/16/20 3:34pm

Management avoids and procrastinates difficult conversations

1/16/20 3:40pm

It's the going behind my back that bothers me. Everyone on my team has been

Hypnotoad

1/16/20 3:45pm

That makes sense. Maybe the 15 min conversation is just to give you an update

Coach's Dad

1/16/20 4:03pm

I saw this repeatedly as a young associate and I saw it from both sides. For

gwalker

1/16/20 3:43pm

Exactly.Nothing like observing how your firm values your time and experience

Cougarclaw

1/16/20 3:48pm

Happens in engineering too. The advice I've received is you generally have to

Mitty

1/16/20 9:15pm

One of the worst things you could do is overreact

Incentivize

1/16/20 3:43pm

Even if it turns out you were disrespected, decide how much that bothers you. If

gwalker

1/16/20 3:45pm

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