Hawaii but has never been and is 82. My MIL is progressing in Dementia. It's really now or never and despite my desire to find a cheaper destination my wife insists that Hawaii has some mythical aurora that our parents and kids need to experience at least once. So my cheap self is letting this one go. For 11 of us for a week I figure I'll be into this trip about $15k-$20K. At some point you've got to spend it, right?