radar active cruise control package. In the database they said there were two white ones, and a blue one with black interior in the entire united states.

There were a TON of blue with two-tone, without active cruise. The active cruise was new, and not a lot of dealers even knew about it.

A ton of dealerships gave him the run around (SLC-Utah County), but our local dealership said "We will just order it in."

My dad dropped a deposit. He had to wait a few months (as expected) and they called him as the truck dropped it off, the protective plastic sheeting still on the vehicle and everything.

So it can be done, but your dealership might not find it worth his/her time.